Change Begins With Me

I don’t know why it is but we always want to see somebody else change. We want to see our boss change, our husband or wife change, we may even want our neighbors to change. But I have discovered that when I find myself desiring change in others the first step in witnessing that change depends on me.

Change begins with the one who wants to see change. If I wait for others to change I might be waiting until hell freezes over. But when I begin to change, when I begin to love, forgive, when I begin to soften, whatever adjustments need to be made, then I will see the things around me begin to be affected. The secret is to allow the Holy Spirit to reveal to you what part you have in the process of change and many times it involves love and forgiveness on our part. Proverbs 28:13 says, “He that covereth his sins shall not prosper; but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.” And I will tell you, there is no one who knows how to give you mercy like God.

I have counseled with couples who say they have never said I’m sorry or acknowledged being wrong throughout their entire marriage. Repentance is so important. This is especially true in the healing of relationships. It is an opportunity to see the power of God move on your behalf when you make the decision to walk in love, when you choose to do things His way. The best advertisement for Jesus is when people see a changed life. You can hit them in the head with a 15 pound Bible and get no response, but when people see a change in your conversation, a softening in your attitude, when people see Jesus in you then it will draw them.

Supernatural change is the result of allowing God to move in you first which will release His power in your situation. So the next time you desire to see change take place in another ask the Holy Spirit to search your heart and to let change begin in you.

By All Means Win Some

I will never forget a man I met down in West Columbia Texas named Dan Smith. They called him the meanest man in town. His face looked like a road map from being cut by so many beer bottles. But, God gave a pastor named B. B. Hankins a burden for that man and he just kept loving that man. He would go into the bar, sit down beside him and talk to him about Jesus until he would leave.

Then one day, the meanest man in West Columbia Texas got saved and do you know what he did? He got after his boys and began to bring them to church. He told them he would whip them if they didn’t go to church with him so they did because they knew the old man could whip them. He was mean.

See they didn’t know about all the transformation that had taken place, all they knew as that he was still capable so one by one they came to church. I remember the week he brought all of his family in and he wasn’t nice about it. And he brought them in and told them to sit down and then he took the aisle seat so they couldn’t get out. When the altar call was given he would say, “Do you want to accept Jesus?” One by one they would come down and get saved, bawling and squalling and hugging each other. Mean old Dan Smith, that’s the only life he had ever lived. He didn’t know any different.

Dan Smith was a soul winner for Jesus. He thought it was a sin if he came to church without bringing somebody who needed Jesus. You may say, “I wouldn’t want that old man in my church.” Hey, I wish I had a thousand of them. You can build churches with folks like that. Dan Smith was not a nice man but thankfully churches aren’t made for nice people because none of us were nice before Jesus found us. Church is for sinners who have found the saving grace of Jesus Christ. People like you. Well I think you get the essence of the message, it’s time to win some people to Jesus.

One of the great men of days gone by could not go to sleep at night unless he had won somebody to Jesus. One night over in London, he had laid his head on a pillow after a long day of preaching and it dawned on him “I haven’t won anybody to Jesus today”. He got out of bed, changed out of his night clothes went out to the street corner and found one lonely soul under an umbrella and won him to Jesus then went back to bed. You say that is fanaticism. No that is new testament Christianity. Do you have to win the city? No, but by all means win some and whatever it takes, bring them in.

God’s Way

Back around in 1970, we had worked real hard in our church and had built it up to about 125 people whom we loved dearly. After spending five years of hard physical labor, there wasn’t a part of the old building that didn’t have some piece of my hide nailed to it. I said, God I don’t mind doing this, but it’s time for a harvest, I’m hungry for a harvest. It was during that time that I got the vision of the great feast which I want to share with you today.

As Christians we have such a wonderful thing that is available, but there has to be people to enjoy it. Restaurants close because people don’t come. I mean there have been some very fine restaurants that have opened with great promise; they were going to be famous! Everything about them was good. They looked good, the sign looked good, the food was superb… they just had one problem, the people didn’t come. You see that will close down any steakhouse. Or close down any house.

So here I was preparing the house for a great feast, and I began to cry out, “God I will do anything that is right and I will do anything that works”. I never have examined the theology of that, it was just my heart crying out to God. It has got to be right and it has got to work. Some things are right, but they just don’t seem to work. Some things work but, unfortunately, they are not right and we must be people of integrity and people of honesty. I wanted Calvary Cathedral to always be subject to change, God’s way.

So what did God do in response to my prayer? He sent in a group of hippie young people! They didn’t look like I was accustomed to folks looking and they brought drums and guitars with them to worship. We had never had those in our church before because as you know, Jesus didn’t have drums in his church. But we have come a long way baby! So we started doing a lot of things differently but you know what, young people began to come, lives were being changed and we decided we would continue do some things differently.

Throughout that time we did not compromise the Word of God, but how many know that there are different baits that you put on the hook to catch different fish. We learned through that experience that the harvest is ready, the people are hungry and we stand ready to serve a great feast. The meal has not been altered. But in the presentation, if we want to see a harvest, we must be willing to change – God’s way.

New Creation

John 3:16, “God so loved the world, that He gave his only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”

I was thinking about how beautiful it is that every sin can be forgiven. That we are not only are forgiven, not recycled sinners, we are new creations in Christ Jesus. I mean, God didn’t just clean us up a little bit and then push us on out the door. You are not an accident looking for a place to happen. You are a new creation in Christ Jesus. You may have had many issues in the past but the old things have passed away and behold all things are becoming new.

So where do I stand as a believer? I’m not all that I want to be but I’m not what I used to be and I am on my way to being everything Jesus died for me to be. That’s what it is all about. Every sin forgiven and the chance for a new beginning. I’m a new creation in Christ Jesus. I’m justified – just as though I had never sinned.

Jesus made a way so that none should perish. It is a beautiful transformation we experience as we walk in daily relationship Him. From lost and broken sinner to beautiful new creation. All because God so loved the world.

Judge Not

A young man, 16 years of age, came into the revival in June of 1993. They said he had learning disabilities and could never function in a normal classroom setting. And he was, by his own admission, a social misfit, whose life was a disaster. His mother talked him into coming to church one night, and he was touched by the power of the Holy Ghost. He went to the floor and God did a work in that young man’s life.

You may say, “I don’t believe that”, well that’s okay, pass on by. You may think that most folks fake it, well some of them probably do, but not all of them. I will tell you there are people that get off of the floor and God’s done a work of surgery.

I will never forget the grief that was in my wife’s heart when her youngest brother Rex was killed by a drunken driver. It was such a senseless tragedy. All that people think about is who does or doesn’t go to jail. But people don’t realize the pain and heartache of the tragedy. He was twenty eight years old with a beautiful wife and brand new baby. My wife was hurting; I saw her hurting and Dr. Kenneth Hagin prayed for her one night. The power of God put Joy on the floor and when Joy goes on the floor I can go get several hamburgers before it is going to be all over. She and God negotiate so it’s going to be a little while before they get through. But she said afterward, you know when I got up the hurt was healed, God had touched me. During that special time God had taken away the sting of her loss and given the grace to go on.

You know, we need to be very careful about judging the things we see in the church. Occasionally somebody may be doing something ugly or ungodly, we know that is wrong. But what I am talking about is judging someone else when you don’t know what God is doing in their life. There may be a reason why they cry or laugh so much. A little laughter would probably help you too. There may be a reason why they come to the altar so much. Listen to me, I’m talking to you out of a pastor’s heart, leave them alone and let them come to Jesus. Let God do a work of grace in their lives.

God said don’t make a big deal out of why they come, just receive them as they come. Minister to them and help them because this could be, just as it was for that misfit young man and my precious wife, their day of turnaround.

That You May Prosper

3 John 1:2 “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health…”

I believe God’s desire to prosper his children is part of the full gospel. “Oh, you must be one of those prosperity preachers and I just don’t believe in that.” My guess is that you do. You want every dime you can get your hand on. Did you give your paycheck back this week because you didn’t feel you deserved it? I doubt it, because everybody is after prosperity. Everybody wants to pay their bills, make their mortgage payment on time, live in dignity, put shoes and clothing on their children and send them back to school. The ability to do those things is called prosperity.

“Beloved I would that you prosper and be in health…” This verse goes on to say, “…even as your soul prospers.” Bob Nichols has never, preached material prosperity over spiritual prosperity, we have preached this thing in balance. But I hate poverty, I hate sickness and the works of the devil. We are here declaring that if you are poor, hang around, you are going to pull out of that. If you are sick, hang around, you are going to get well. If your home is in trouble, stay around a little while and God is going to restore harmony in your home. That’s what the gospel of Jesus Christ is all about, the assurance that God is going to turn it around.

A man came to me one day and said, “I served time in jail and when I got out I came to this church and asked Jesus into my heart.” He was coming to tell me that for the first time in his life he paid a $300.00 tithe. He said he had never been able to do anything like that before he came to Jesus. And he said the blessings just continued to flow. He had a church family that loved him, a place that welcomed him and make him feel like he had worth. Not only that, God had given him a beautiful home for half the price. This may not have happened to you yet but it will. Just hold steady and keep on believing, keep on giving, keep on praying, keep the switch of faith turned on and God will turn it around for you.

Faith For The Long-Haul

(Excerpt from Pastor’s book, ‘How to Get a Grip on God’s Promises”)

This woman had long-haul faith.  She was not easily moved; her faith was focused.  The New Testament gives us some examples of those whose faith was not so steady.  Matthew 14:22-33 is the story of Jesus walking on the water in the midst of a storm.  When the disciples saw Him they cried out.  Jesus told them not to be afraid.  Eventually Jesus told Peter to come walk on the water.  Unlike the Shunammite woman, Peter started out strong but allowed the circumstances around him to move him off his faith.  Peter began to sink and cried out to Jesus for help. Jesus reached out his hand and then said to Peter, “. . . O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?”  Do you remember in Luke 22:32, when Jesus prayed for Peter?  He said, “. . . I have prayed for thee, that your faith fail not . . .” Let me tell you the kind of faith Peter had.  Peter had what I like to call “burning rubber” faith.  That is how we describe when a car takes off quickly and leaves black rubber marks on the road.  Peter was good for about a block or two, then something would happen and he would explode and all you would hear was the screeching of tires and there Peter goes again.  Then he runs out of gas or his motor comes apart.

Years ago, the transmissions in some of the old cars we used to drive would suddenly stop working.  It was kind of embarrassing when it would malfunction in front of your girlfriend. You are showing her how your car will run and it lasts about a block or two and then it would stall.  That was like Peter.  I can identify with Peter because at one time I was like that. His heart meant well.  I mean this guy would cut off somebody’s ear to help Jesus.  But Jesus prayed that his faith would not just be short-haul faith; Jesus desired that his faith would be steady for the long-haul.

Giving Beyond The Tithe

(An excerpt from Pastor’s Book, “How to Make Your Life Count for God”)

I am sorry to tell you that I spent too many years in the ministry without understanding what giving to God was all about.  I knew tithing was right; my wife Joy and I both came from tithing families.  We knew that we needed to tithe, but any offerings above the tithe were a big, big deal.  At that time we did not have the full revelation of worshiping God with offerings above our tithe.  There we were, preaching the Gospel and wondering how we were going to pay our utility bills.  We were suffering from what I call financial friction.  Let me tell you Joy and I understand friction very well.  Friction means two back payments rubbing up against each other.  Friction is a symptom of poverty.  Poverty means not having enough.  We have probably all been there.  Your seed will meet your financial need and the harvest will affect your entire life.  Paul said, “…my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory” (Philippians 4:19 emphasis added).  We discovered your seed will meet more than your financial need.

I am not saying that the blessings of God can be bought.  However, I am amazed at the things that I have seen God do for people who give to Jesus.  He meets their need on every level of life.  Joy has said it more than once since our daughter has needed around the clock nursing care.  A gift has been given to us much greater than money could ever buy; in the precious caregivers that have given of their time to come and help.  We could have never orchestrated this on our own.  But God has supplied the need.  We are so grateful for the seed that is being sown by these precious caregivers.

There are people who prospered by giving tithes and offerings, but once their harvest started to come in they decided they stopped giving. They decided they did not need to give those tithes and offerings anymore.  That is a very dangerous position.  Whatever it took to get you blessed is what it is going to take to keep you blessed.  Everyone knows the only way an airliner can stay at thirty-thousand feet is to keep the power on.  If you turn the engines off you will be able to glide for a little but eventually you will crash into the ground.  In the same way if you stop sowing seed you will cut off your harvest.

The harvest that your seed produces is more than money.  You may have a need that cannot be met by money.  You may need a physical healing, help in a marriage relationship, or your children may have needs.  Your giving is not just for you as an individual; you are planting seeds for your children and grandchildren.  Sure, you will get blessed in the process but that is not the end of it.  I am planting seeds for all of my family.  It is not just about Joy and me.  I plant seeds on a regular basis for my grandchildren and great grandchildren.  They will never have to look back and say, “Granddaddy was tight with God.”  I want my family to know that Joy and I were givers to God.  I want them to know that we did not stop giving once our financial situation was better.  Giving and believing God for a harvest is a way of life for us.

Passion for Purity

(An excerpt from Pastor’s Book, “How to Make Your Life Count for God”)

It is important to obey God and live a pure life in order to fulfill God’s plan.  Because of this, I want to live clean and pure.  The further I go in the ministry purity becomes more of a passion with me.  I have come too far to throw away my reputation.  I want to do the right thing.  I want to be a pastor that my congregation does not have to be ashamed of.  I want my faith to be an example that others can look to.  Keep the stream of faith pure.  Faith will always require obedience and sometimes the people around you will not understand you.  Sometimes members of your own family will criticize you.  If you are going to make your life count for God you cannot let what other people say deter you from being obedient to the voice of God.

There are some other things that I think God wants us to see.  In Mark’s account Jesus says, “She hath done what she could.” Notice that Jesus did not rebuke her.  Jesus will never ask you to do what you cannot do.  That might have been her only valuable possession.  The ointment was precious to her but she decided to give it.  When you cannot do everything you want to do, doing what you can is a powerful principle.

How do you really make your life count for God?  There are people of great wealth who say, “Well I will build a hospital or a library and they will put my name on it.”  That is admirable.  There is nothing wrong with that, but that is not how you make your life count for God.  People build these monuments to themselves so that they will be remembered.  In the Kingdom of God it is not so much what you get, but what you give that makes your life count for God.

If it had been me I might have looked at the expensive ointment said, “God is not asking you to do that.”  Believe me, you do not know how many times I have said things like that, when people took a step of sacrificial giving.  Many years ago there was a woman who went to our church here in Fort Worth who did a similar thing. Her deceased husband had left her a small pension from his work for the railroad which included a few benefits. She was a dedicated member of the church, a consistent tither, and a generous giver. One day she came in and handed me an offering of several thousand dollars, something that she had never done before. “This is my entire savings account, pastor,” she told me. I had an idea of how much she made with her pension. It would have taken her a couple of years to save up for an offering of this size. I would never encourage anyone to give away their savings, unless they are directed by God.  I would think this type of giving would be foolhardy without God’s direction.

“Now sister, this is just too much! You don’t need to give this.” I told her, but she was not moved. She looked me square in the eye and said, “Bob Nichols, you take this offering. You have been teaching about giving and I want to give this as a seed.” See, this is the attitude of people who are operating by faith in their giving. They are not moved by what anyone says to them. So I took the offering, believing that she would receive a harvest.

A couple of weeks later she testified that someone had asked if she was aware of some unpublicized pension benefits.  He informed her that she would have to sign up for them or they would be lost. This was the first that she had heard of it.  She signed up and received double the amount of money per month than she had been receiving! When you sow a seed in faith the result is a harvest of multiplication!

One day the woman with the alabaster box said, “I do not care what anybody says, it belongs to me and I am going to give it to Jesus.”  She did not bring a sick lamb or a lame donkey, she brought the most expensive thing she had.  She did not ask anybody about it because it would not have been their business anyway. So, she broke that alabaster box and poured the ointment on Jesus.  The moment she did, all monetary value was gone.  It was not coming back and that is why the world said it was a waste.  They said, if you wanted to do something noble, you could have sold that and given the money to the poor.

Jesus went on to say something else.  “Verily I say unto you, Wheresoever this gospel shall be preached in the whole world, there shall also this, that this woman hath done, be told for a memorial of her”(Matthew 26:13). This woman’s gift became international.  Her worship and giving were actually recorded in God’s Word.  When Jesus said, “Verily” he meant that you can count on it.  Even today the story of this gift is preached all over the world.

Winning with God

“If you can win in the wilderness, you can win anywhere.

1Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. 2And when he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was afterward an hungered. 3And when the tempter came to him, he said, If thou be the Son of God, command that these stones be made bread. 4But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God. 5Then the devil taketh him up into the holy city, and setteth him on a pinnacle of the temple, 6And saith unto him, If thou be the Son of God, cast thyself down: for it is written, He shall give his angels charge concerning thee: and in their hands they shall bear thee up, lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone. 7Jesus said unto him, It is written again, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God. 8Again, the devil taketh him up into an exceeding high mountain, and sheweth him all the kingdoms of the world, and the glory of them; 9And saith unto him, All these things will I give thee, if thou wilt fall down and worship me. 10Then saith Jesus unto him, Get thee hence, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve. 11Then the devil leaveth him, and, behold, angels came and ministered unto him.

Matthew 4:1-11

The wilderness can be a scary place. The literal wilderness can mean darkness, danger and possible death if you are lost. Unless you have had special training, the wilderness can be a place where there aren’t a lot of resources for you to help yourself. You need outside help to find your way home. God has a history of delivering people from both the literal and spiritual wildness. His power is great no matter the circumstances. God has given us His Word as a sword – a weapon of warfare and deliverance. Jesus, our example, overcame temptation by using the scriptures. We should do the same!

Victory Action

Following Jesus’ example, I will use The Word and win over all, even in the wilderness.